Do you find that you tend to stay in situations a lot longer than you need to? You know that the situation isn’t right for you. It doesn’t make you feel good. In fact, remaining in that situation may actually make you feel bad about yourself. If this is you, it’s time to make a few changes.
I worked with a client, who found herself in a relationship with a man who wasn’t right for her by any means. He was emotionally abusive and took advantage of her. Because my client suffered with low self-esteem, she refused to leave the situation, even though she saw all of the signs in front of her, as clear as day. Because she had not been very successful in dating, she felt that it was “better to be miserable with someone, than to be miserable alone.”
It took quite a bit of coaching for my client to finally realize that she didn’t deserve to be mistreated in this way. After pointing out the natural gifts that she possessed and showing her just how beautiful she was, both inside and out, she finally developed the courage and strength to leave the abuse. As a result, she has now found a partner who treats her the way she deserves to be treated. She is happily married, and very grateful that her eyes were finally opened.
So, how do you know when it’s time to leave a situation that may potentially be harmful for you? If you find yourself feeling drained, depressed, or being doubted by people who are supposed to be your closest support, it may be time to:
1. Examine and re-evaluate the situation that is causing you the greatest stress.
2. Simplify your life by removing the things that cause greatest stress.
3. Surround yourself with people who genuinely love, support, and believe in what you are all about and are doing.
These steps may be easier said than done, but it is a matter of prioritizing and putting enough value on yourself to take these steps. Once you do, you are well on your way to love your life and live in health!
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